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Peter Martin Byrne Robotics Member
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| Posted: 10 April 2026 at 9:38pm | IP Logged | 1
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A disturbing number of people can't even get a grip on whether to use me or I. This is not rocket science. It's your own native tongue!
Then you have the crowd who have an inkling they may not be able to choose correctly between the nominative and objective versions of the pronouns and think they can circumvent it entirely by using the reflexive pronoun 'myself' instead. Doesn't work like that!
That said, 'me' has generally been crowding out 'I' for a long time in many circumstances. Who, me? Yes you! Me too...
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Eric Jansen Byrne Robotics Member
Joined: 27 October 2013 Location: United States Posts: 2551
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| Posted: 10 April 2026 at 10:34pm | IP Logged | 2
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In these days of endless texts, posts, and emails, I am always surprised by how many college graduates don't know proper grammar or how to spell common words correctly.
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Vinny Valenti Byrne Robotics Member
Joined: 17 April 2004 Location: United States Posts: 8540
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| Posted: 10 April 2026 at 10:46pm | IP Logged | 3
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"A disturbing number of people can't even get a grip on whether to use me or I. This is not rocket science. It's your own native tongue!"
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And there's such an easy way to get it right every time. Just eliminate the other subject in the sentence and use that to judge whether "me" or "I" should be used. The same answer applies when the other subject is included. Definitely a pet peeve of mine when this simple rule is not followed.
"I went to the store" has the same usage as "My wife and I went to the store".
"My mother gave me a present" is the same usage as "My mother gave my wife and me a present".
Edited by Vinny Valenti on 10 April 2026 at 10:46pm
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Brian Price Byrne Robotics Member
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| Posted: 10 April 2026 at 10:53pm | IP Logged | 4
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Thanks Vinny, I'd never seen that rule before. Quite useful.
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Brian ONeill Byrne Robotics Member
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| Posted: 10 April 2026 at 11:08pm | IP Logged | 5
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A lot of social media 'story/anecdote' posts(especially on Reddit) will have someone describing the events of 'My [spouse/partner] and I's anniversary'. Or 'My spouse's and my...'
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Brian Miller Byrne Robotics Member
Joined: 28 July 2004 Location: United States Posts: 31951
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| Posted: 10 April 2026 at 11:37pm | IP Logged | 6
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What Vinny mentions is how I was taught way back when.
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John Byrne
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Same. ‘Course, I was also taught to spell color with a U!
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Vinny Valenti Byrne Robotics Member
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| Posted: 11 April 2026 at 1:27am | IP Logged | 8
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While we're on that subject:
I first learned about the British spelling of words when I got a Commodore 64 (my first computer) for Christmas '83, along with an expansion cartridge called Simons' BASIC. It was named after a British programmer named David Simons. He added new commands for sprite and background handling, and one of them was COLOUR, which changed the background colo(u)r of the screen. I thought at first that he had made a mistake. I pronounced the word in my head as "coloor", and I still do whenever I see the "our" used, even though I know it's wrong*.
*Very close to that same topic, my brain still reads "Simonson" with a short I, even though I've known that that's incorrect for decades now. Honsestly, "Sih-mun-sun" sounds more nordic to me, so it just seemed natural.
Edited by Vinny Valenti on 11 April 2026 at 1:31am
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Brian Miller Byrne Robotics Member
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| Posted: 11 April 2026 at 2:24am | IP Logged | 9
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What Vinny mentions is how I was taught way back when.
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Peter Martin Byrne Robotics Member
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| Posted: 11 April 2026 at 2:58am | IP Logged | 10
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That was the common sense rule i think I taught myself once I learned that "Sue and me went to the shops" was wrong. As soon as you put it in the singular, you can naturally hear it's wrong. But then, once thou actually grokst what purpose personal pronouns actually serve and how they fit in a sentence, it is easier for thine understanding.
Edited by Peter Martin on 11 April 2026 at 2:58am
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Vinny Valenti Byrne Robotics Member
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| Posted: 11 April 2026 at 4:44am | IP Logged | 11
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I don't remember whether not I figured it out on my own. It's quite possible I did - or worst case, a teacher may have mentioned it just once and I had an "aha, of course" moment that I never forgot it.
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Brian Hughes Byrne Robotics Member
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| Posted: 11 April 2026 at 7:59am | IP Logged | 12
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It was sixth grade English in 77/78 where Mrs. Miller taught us the I/me rule Vinny mentions.
But then again Mrs. Miller was the no nonsense teacher that taught us the sentence diagrams that demonstrated things like how there was an understood "you" at the beginning of the often used "f#@k you" statement that so many people misunderstood making it actually "you f#@k you" which meant "f#@k yourself".
This was all started as one day in class, a student had told another "f#@k you". The other student responded "No thanks, I have taste." Mrs. Miller stopped the outburst and forced us all to diagram the sentence showing the second students error.
Mrs. Miller was one of the best parts of my younger education.
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